I've spent most of the last three weekends doing DIY, I've re-guttered the back of the house and done a fair amount of shed-work. What I haven't spent the last three weeks doing is playing with the kids. This has caused a fair bit of resentment with both the boy and the wee lass. The boy has followed me around dogmatically demanding I play football with him and Fifi has been crying and demanding cuddles when I'm 3 metres up a ladder. It's made the DIY a lot slower for sure.
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So when I put the wee lass into her PJ's last night and asked her if she had a nice day, I'd say I was pretty crushed when she replied, "No, you go to work tomorrow, I play with Mummy instead."

Aww that's so mean. You really went out your way and tried and still you ended up with a kick in the gonads.. It has happened to me quite a few times so i wouldn't worry to much about it lol, i think all children have a favorite parent and most of the time it's mummy.
ReplyDeleteUs dad's never get enough attention and respect i think! :)
Kids can be so cruel, can't they? My hubby worked away for a year during the weeks between my daughter being 1 and 2. So she's a real mummy's girl. At times it's so hard for all of us - I want a break from doing bath time, DD is screaming her heart out for me, and hubby is feeling utterly rejected. It's such a tough gig. Sometimes we give in, sometimes we stay strong.
ReplyDeleteHopefully a couple more soft-play visits and your little one will be all yours :-)
Kids just know how to play the parental system don't they?!
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