It started off as something that was easy to do when we started dating about 16 years ago (16 years 2 months and 9 days to be precise, but who’s counting?) but as every year passes, I struggle to live up to my own lofty expectations.
Again though, this is something you can only really do once. This is where some of the more tailored and thoughtful offerings on gift websites can help. Personalised mugs or cushions, something a little bit quirky or a voucher for an experience that you’d not normally do (although with my wife that’s a hard task- she’s been in airships, and used to regularly do archaeological digs!) are something a little out of the ordinary that show thought and showing thought is definitely the most important thing. When you both work and both earn money, it’s often not the amount you spend on a gift that’s important, it’s the thought and love that’s gone in to it.
At least that’s what I tell my kids after I’ve had to ask them what the latest sculpture they’ve made me for Fathers Day is anyway!